DON'T GROW OLD

Got this as an email a really long time ago and just thought to share with all who might be interested! I think it’s kinda deep…………………

Many people are afraid of growing old.
I'm afraid of growing old and boring.
Many people are afraid of growing old, alone.
I'm afraid of growing old, insane.
Many people are afraid of losing their looks.
I'm afraid of losing my dreams.
Many people are afraid of losing their youth.
I'm afraid of losing my soul.
When you're 15, 35 seems ancient.
When you're 35, 15 seems juvenile.
A turnaround in a split second - two decades zoom past and
before you know it, it's only a mile to the next millennium.
Don't fear age,
it's a right of person-hood.
Don't fear death- it's God's greatest jest.
Don't grow old - you don't have to.
Don't date because you're desperate.
Don't marry because you're miserable.
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don't separate because you think it's fashionable.
Don't drink because you have troubles.
Don't gamble because you think winning is inevitable.
Don't philander because you think you're irresistible.
Most likely, you're not.
Don't associate with people you can't trust.
Don't cheat.
Don't lie.
Don't pretend.
Don't try to buy your way into the kingdom of God.
Don't dictate because you're smarter.
Don't demand because you're stronger.
Don't sleep around because you think you're old enough and know better.
Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don't sell yourself, your family or your ideals.
Don't stagnate.
Don't regress.
Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Don't live in the past.
Time can't bring anything or anyone back.
Don't put your life on hold for possibly Mr. Right.
Don't throw you life away on absolutely Mr. Wrong because your
biological clock is ticking and you can't afford to have your
eggs harvested before the new millennium.
There's always a mad rush to something, somewhere - but victory
does not always belong to those who finish first.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid
for some of life's more hasty decisions.
You can't always go with the throng who could be wrong.
Sometimes, you have to be alone to be enlightened.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong
reasons.
To keep yourself warm, buy a jacket.
In the long run, it will be less complicated and less costly.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of
what you can be.
Simplify your life.
Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements - abusive friends, nasty habits
and dangerous liaisons.
Don't abandon your responsibilities, but don't overdose on duty.
Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your
family.
Be true to yourself. Don't commit when you're not ready.
Don't keep others waiting needlessly.
Fall in love - it's the greatest thing on earth.
But take care and remember, after the fall must come the rise.
Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.
Say those words. Don't let the moment pass.
Do what you must even at society's scorn.
Write poetry. Love deeply. Walk barefoot. Hold hands.
Dance with wild abandon. Cry at the movies.
Take care of yourself.
Don't wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you - except you.
It is true that life doesn't get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don't be afraid.
Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in God.
Don't grow old.
Just grow up.

Urban Legends and Hoax e-mails

Ever get all those really sad e-mails where some little girl is dying of cancer and you can save her life if you only forwarded it to all your friends, or how Yahoo is about to yank people off their mail service and you need to forward the message to all the people on your address book so management knows you are still an active yahoo user, or how Microsoft is giving away thousands of dollars and you really need to send the message fast so you can get some, or even how some lady had maggots growing in her breast and how everyone really needs to be careful and the list is endless really.

I really used to believe all them e-mails and forward them to everyone on my mailing list until a friend made me promise never to send any such emails till i was very sure of the source. So i started checking them out, everytime i got them.

It was pretty easy though, all i had to do was google a significant item in the story and the results 99% of the time came back as links to and urban legend with the origin and all that stuff. And from that day on, i got liberated from feeling guilty after not forwarding an e-mail that could probably save someones life! Hoax! Hoax! Hoax! That’s what they all are.

So people, you might want to google all such stories when you get them and you will find they are untrue. Lastly,
• You will not have 10 years of bad luck if you do not forward an email
• You will not find your true love just because you sent an e-mail
• Your wish would not come true just because you forwarded an e-mail
• You are not heartless just because you refused to forward an email
• Yahoo is not cramped for space and therefore needs to yank some people off
• Isn’t it weird that the same little girl has had cancer and will die in 6 months for almost 5 years now

See Dubai and die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ever heard that? Well been there, seen it, and lived!
Seriously! its a wonder! you have to see it yourself to get the gist. Most people just know about Dubai as a tax free zone and only think about shopping and all. Its much more than shopping and business.

I boarded my Qatar Airways flight enroute to Dubai via Doha. I didnt get to see much of Qatar though as i was just changing planes there. My first impression of Dubai was at the passport control. I saw people in their numbers and then i knew there must really be something about Dubai.

The down side for a Naija girl like me was the heat, it was sooo hot and it felt like the sun was shining and it was like 10pm! So you can imagine, i was going from heat to heat! (Naija peeps in d house) I started the next morning on a shopping trip to the Diera City Center. Yeah Yeah i'm a girl.... i like shopping!...... naturally i would wanna check out the shops. Its not one of Dubai's biggest but it is quite big and standard. Shops ranging from H & M (My fav casual clothing shop) to Calvin Klien.

Ok Ok now to the sight seeing and sturvz. I took a bus tour of Dubai and saw all the really nice buildings and all, the tallest building in the world (still under construction though, but its already the tallest and still going!), the Bruj Al Arab (Now thats a sight to behold), the palace of the Ruler of Dubai, the Dubai Museum, the man made sea, the Diera palm, the diera creek, the spice souk and Gold souk too! i have never seen soo many Gold shops in one place. Pity i am not a gold freak so i didn't get any gold atall :-)

The high point of my visit though was the Desert Safari! Oh! My God!!!!! The experience is second to none. It gets your adrenalin way up! My excitment started with my really really fine safari driver "Ali" mnnn mnnn! he was soooo fine! He was probably wondering why this naija girl kept staring at him, whatever! i stared and stared until i had a mental image of him imprinted in my head hehehehehehehe.

We went over dunes and dunes of desert sand at high speed, it was crazy! it felt like going on a roller coaster ride in the sand! there were times i thought the car was gonna go over and roll down, but fine Ali knew his stuff. Then i had a buffet in the desert, and went to see belly dancing! and also had Henna done on my hand!

The Mall of the Emirates is another really nice mall to visit. It's way bigger than the Diera City Center and has all the major shops and more. The most interesting thing for me at the Mall of the Emirates though was the Ski Pavillion. All artificial snow and the temp in there was -3 deg i think! so for all you ski enthusiasts!

And the food! how could i forget the food! i had all sorts!  for all the malls i went to, i always went to the maps and traced the food courts! i had Chinese, Japanese, Mexican, and Thai!

Anyways i should stop gushing about Dubai. For those of you who hope to visit, what am i saying, y'all should visit. Make sure you visit the Wild Wadi, the malls, go on the Dhow Cruise, Desert Safari, the city tour and visit the local markets too